I'm Running my server with the Hey-0 mod (build 134) I can connect to my server ever time but no one else can ....
1. I have port forwarded
2. I have allowed all ports through my firewall
3. I gave my ip for the people to connect with
- This is what i get when they try to connect.... anyone think they can help me plz? 
(Free Admin Position If you help me fix this =P)

-Message I get when they connect-

2011-01-16 14:09:54 [INFO] ******** [/76.175.55.47:57405] logged in with entity
id 25
Player count: 1
java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: socket write error
at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite0(Native Method)
at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite(Unknown Source)
at java.net.SocketOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
at java.io.DataOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
at kx.a(SourceFile:113)
at ca.e(SourceFile:142)
at ca.d(SourceFile:15)
at kw.run(SourceFile:85)
java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: recv failed
at java.net.SocketInputStream.socketRead0(Native Method)
at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
at java.io.FilterInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
at kx.b(SourceFile:102)
at ca.f(SourceFile:157)
at ca.c(SourceFile:15)
at kv.run(SourceFile:68)
2011-01-16 14:10:39 [INFO] ******* lost connection: disconnect.genericReason